What to expect when working with
Simpatico Matchmaking

No. And we’re very comfortable saying that. There is no swiping, scrolling, liking, DM-ing, or algorithm guessing what you want based on who you accidentally lingered on at 2am.
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Simpatico is human-led matchmaking with structure, discretion, and actual judgment.

That’s extremely normal — and exactly why we talk first.We’ll help you choose the level that fits your goals, timeline, and budget.

No pressure. No upselling gymnastics. No “this is your only chance” nonsense.

Apps give you access. We give you clarity. Instead of endless options, mixed signals, and emotional whiplash, we focus on:

- Intentional introductions

- Real conversations about compatibility

- Feedback that actually helps you improve your outcomes

Less noise. More direction.

Think of it as a quiet, curated pool — not a public marketplace.

By joining the Private Registry:

- Your information is never searchable

- You may be considered as a match for Members or Clients

- You’ll be invited to private events and mixers

It’s a low-commitment way to be seen without being on display.

People who:

- Want a meaningful relationship

- Are tired of guessing

- Are open to guidance (even when it’s slightly uncomfortable)

- Value their time, energy, and emotional bandwidth

You don’t need to be perfect. You do need to be ready.

Because vibes are not a strategy.

Real compatibility requires understanding:

- Your relationship patterns

- Your values and dealbreakers

- How you actually show up on dates (not how you think you do)

We can’t do thoughtful matchmaking with surface-level info — and we won’t pretend otherwise.

Your Dating Quotient is how effectively you date — not how attractive, accomplished, or likable you are.It includes:Self-awareness

- Communication style

- Emotional availability

- Pattern recognition

- Date readiness

We help you raise it — sometimes gently, sometimes directly — because better awareness leads to better matches.

Possibly. Lovingly. With context.
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We act as the outsider looking in — pointing out blind spots you can’t see from inside your own experience. You don’t have to agree with everything. You do have to be open to hearing it.

No — and anyone who does is lying.What we do guarantee:

- Thoughtful introductions

- Honest feedback

- Strategic guidance

- A process designed to eliminate wasted time

We stack the odds in your favor. The rest requires participation.

We believe matchmaking should be accessible, transparent, and flexible.

- No long-term contracts

- No paying thousands upfront

- No “hope this works” pricing

You pay for access and introductions — nothing more.

We debrief. Every time.
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You’ll share your experience.
We’ll gather feedback from your date (when appropriate).

Then we help you interpret what actually happened — not just how it felt in the moment.
This is where growth happens.

Completely.
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Your information is confidential, securely stored, and only shared with your explicit permission.
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No screenshots. No surprises. No exceptions.

That’s okay.
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There are no penalties, no awkward exits, and no hard feelings.

We want people here who want to be here.

Not at all.
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It’s common — and very workable.
Whether you’re newly single, long-divorced, or just finally ready, we meet you where you are and help you move forward with confidence.

Simple.
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Complete the intake form.
We’ll review it.
Then we’ll connect and see if we’re Simpatico.